Approach girls in a way that attracts their interest, approach in a way that tells them that your a confident Alpha Male – and watch the incredible response. Girls are attracted to important dominant men, so when your approaching a girl remember that your body language must show her this.
Lets take a closer look at what will attract girls. Many men will say you have to great looking for a woman to become attracted to you. Others will say that you have to drive a Ferrari or vacation all over the world. And whilst these things certainly help – they don’t even start to match up to high status. And this can come from far more than just money or a pretty face!
So once you approach women for the first time, you’ll need to Open with something. Then you’ll need to transition into a normal conversation where you will then begin to attract her. This is where you’ll need to demonstrate higher value (DHV). Because this is the key to get girls attracted to you.
Now lets just back track to first approaching a woman. Whatever you do, don’t walk across an entire room to approach some hot girl on the other side. You need to make it look spontaneous – so be casual.
Stand at the bar, when a cute girl comes up to your side to get a drink turn towards her. (Don’t ever wait more then 3 seconds to do this or you’ll lose the spontaneous element which is key). And ask her for her opinion on something. This is called an Opener. Which is just a fancy name for starting a conversation with a a girl we don’t know.
You see, when you approach girls you’ll need to say something in order for you to get talking to her. So we like to get a girls opinion on something because they tend to be pretty highly opinionated. And so this makes talking to girls you don’t know really easy!
You could ask, ‘Hi, your a girl so you might be able to shed some light on this situation. I’ve got this friend and we’ve known each other for basically ever. She’s really nice and everything but I think that she now likes me in another way. She’s getting quite flirty with me and I just don’t think about her in that way. Do you think that I should ask her stop or is it best to just ignore her?
I’m telling you now that a girl would love to give you her 2 cents on that one. She could be talking for the next 5 minutes but it’s best to actually change the subject as early on as possible. Otherwise it gets harder the longer you wait.
So you’ll need to transition and begin talking to her about something else. An easy way to do this is to pick up on something that she mentions and fluidly change the topic to something related to that. If she mentions a night club you’ve been to, you could say something like, ‘Yeah thats great I went there just the other night, how often do you go?’.
At this point you would be wise to cover may topics, this way you will develop wide rapport. This will speed up the Attraction Phase which comes up next.
Okay so now you’ve learn how to approach a woman, what an opener is and how to use them, as well as how to transition from opening a girl to talking to her about other stuff.